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  • Writer's pictureRachel Carro

Go Nuts Over Yourself And Your Twin Flame Goes Nuts Over You*๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’•

Updated: Apr 13, 2021

๐Ÿ’ญ๐ŸŒผ๐ŸŒธUse your breath to access your feelings, your body, breath and life force are connected. Tune in, ground, deepening into your inner reality where there's peace. Let go of anxiety, let go of the past and the future, be present with how you feel right now, it's OK to be in this moment. It restores you so you can be in the place where you're receiving energy from the Divine Source, it's all you need. This is a process of removing the blocks to Love, there's no need to hurry. Don't be lazy either, move as fast as you can, but there's no need to judge yourself for where you're at. Don't worry about comparisons with others, let go of judgement, let it all go, let it pass, feel OK with yourself. It's not about feeling high and feeling good, but aligning yourself with the appropriate mindset for your joy and fulfilment and your life of Love. Whatever you desire you're supposed to have, no judgement, no rush, it's a process, don't judge where you're at or how you go through the process. Control brings just the illusion of what you want, it requires you to squeeze, but life is experienced when you're open.๐Ÿ’ค๐ŸŒŸ

๐Ÿ„๐Ÿงก๐ŸŒทYou can't look at someone and say, 'They've got such an open tap and I haven't., Say, @they've got such an open tap and I desire it.' Feel appreciation for the one who has the good you desire, and in appreciation you attract it. It's a process of always perfecting it, always improving. Work the process, try it on, find what's real and what doesn't seem to be real and dialogue about it. Even if your Twin Flame isn't right here yet, you're cultivating the process together. As you progress you'll receive answers. What's the value in this? What's the cost? Is it worth it? To whom? What do we do with it? You're exploring an innocent process, innocently engage it in every aspect of your life to solve whatever problems arise. You're not offended by the problems, explore in an unattached way. You must explore your life and being in this way so that when stuff does come up, you don't run for the hills. As you go deeper, stuff comes up. Acknowledge it and love yourself, don't vilify yourself for what you are working through. What's your challenge? What's your big dream that you're walking towards? They're both for you, the challenge is there for you to grow through, to shape you.๐Ÿฅ‘๐Ÿ€

๐Ÿ’Ÿ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’•You attracted it, you created it, you experience it, decide whether you desire it. Have patience, if you're moving forward to create big things and dig deep into your consciousness, it's a process. If you've been working on a dream for a long time, and it's still not come to be the way you desire, have patience. Check your GPS along the way, check the logic, scan the environment, are you going the right way? Trust your answer. There's nothing illogical about the spiritual journey, understand it's logic. Explore it, try it on, engage your logic. You're right to be cautious and discerning, you shouldn't go on unfounded, raw, unscientific belief. Explore and experiment, form a hypothesis, continue to see if it's working. This is a much harder thing to do than blind belief, because now you have to face your doubt and really ask, 'Is this real?' You must be willing to lay down your resistance as you realise it does work. Keep going deeper because it's real, and as you have victories and see that it's real, honour and acknowledge that it's real. Jesus walked on water(one example of the many miracles performed by many masters of various religions), you walk on the divine. Your story defies every belief and fear you had. It makes it impossible not to believe, it's not a belief based on blindness, it's a belief based on sight. Beliefs are powerful, use and build them wisely, an unfounded belief is easily toppled.๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’ฅ

๐ŸŒท๐Ÿฐ๐ŸŽˆIf you feel your Twin Flame is keeping you a couple of feet away energetically, why is that? They're telling you to be more secure in yourself and more fully in love with yourself, not grasping at the outside. Your Twin Flame is your ultimate guru, your greatest teacher first. Do you want to come closer? You should be feeling an enormous relief with this awareness. There's no need to give up your dream of romance and intimacy and closeness. Your Twin Flame is valuing themselves and guiding you there to get whet you want. It's a journey, are you trying to envelop them in your wings? They're teaching you that they want to be free. If you have a tendency to control them, that's what you're working through and have compassion for yourself here. They see you are focused and motivated, they see your potential, it's safe to let go of the clinging. You won't lose anything, you cause them to fly away by clinging. When you see yourself emotionally overwhelmed by the clinging, is beating yourself up effective? It exuberates the problem. Your inner clinging child needs a hug from the Divine, give yourself that comfort.๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’Ÿ

๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿฅ€๐ŸŒบIf I, or your neighbour gave you that love and comfort would you go nuts over me or them? That's what you want to do for your Twin Flame, go nuts over them. They want to love you back, where are you not receiving? Go nuts over yourself and they go nuts over you. Loving yourself is giving yourself what you want your Twin Flame to give you. Neediness is an open vortex of a black hole. If you fill yourself up inside, love yourself first, it's always the same thing because it's fundamental, it applies to all situations, it's the text book Twin Flame dynamic. The scientific pathway to get what you want. See the logic functioning in your Union. You're just getting started with discovering the depth of the truth. Logic and awareness provides comfort and faith and belief in the process allows it to work. The process is just self love, whenever you feel a lack of Love, just stop and Love yourself, whenever you're feeling that neediness come up, pause and love yourself.๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’š

๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’•Notice control, hovering, berating yourself coming up, and instead of letting the pattern play out, intervene, or your Twin Flame will go away. Surrender sooner so they don't have to go so far away to help you. If you were surrendered now, they'd be here. Give yourself that intervention, it feels good and serves you. The pattern pushes them away, but you WILL heal it and master it, and then you get closer and a new pattern comes up which prevents you from getting any closer. Will you let it run your life or heal it? Love yourself, forever get closer and closer, it feels good, it's safe. Closer, more intimate, it's a wonderful life to live. You deserve it so claim it.๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ

๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ‡๐ŸทAnd when together, it will be a joy to be able to go deeper together. If your Twin Flame has different beliefs on the surface, if they want to explore why they believe something isn't real, so should you. Are we wasting our time worshipping this meaningless thing? Some people don't start believing in God because they want to, but because they want to feel good and wanted to find the Source of all power, the Spiritual Source. If a dialogue needs to happen, don't dance around it, or it drains life force. don't get stressed over little things, you want to have a full, rich, lively life of Divine value. People sometimes use drama to fill the spaces that don't feel alive. It's OK to grow into a lively life, it creates a more peaceful life filling full of lively things. Your Twin Flame values their freedom and independence, let them keep it and they'll come closer to you. Work through any cultural challenges that exist in your Union, and become a shining example to others.๐Ÿˆ๐ŸŒฑ

๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒธIt feels so good to be stepping forward in your relationship in a way that had been blocked for a long time. If you feel that there is a heavy price to pay and you have to sacrifice something dear to you, that's not what I teach. It may be a cultural belief system, of having to sacrifice for love, I Iran, for example, it's a term of endearment, suffering for love. You don't have to sacrifice or suffer to have your love, even if it's a culturally ingrained belief. It's not worth it to sacrifice anything to get closer to your beloved. All cultures have a deep beauty and divinity, and must be respected and loved, but there's also challenges to perfect. Love based on suffering doesn't work, would you chop off your arm to get Harmonious Union? Would you feel good about that? Chop off your finger to show how much you love someone? But this ides can be a program, a cultural pathway to get what you want, you can't abandon your culture though, it will always be in you, it's the love of your ancestors. Question how it works, and perfect it, all cultures can use a little perfecting, to say they can't is to stagnate. Loving your culture sustains it. Cultures who live and breathe adapt. to see it is to honour it. If you're wondering if it's really your place to change it, remember, you're Divine.๐Ÿ‰๐Ÿ‚

๐ŸŒŠ๐Ÿ’ญ๐ŸงYou're supposed to interact with your culture, that's you having a dialogue with it, and it's very useful. You don't want to sacrifice to get what you want in your life. Nan suffered to bring me this, Nan, you don't have to suffer to bring me pancakes! Jesus was an example of this, not just that he went through pain, it's deeper, the idea of serving no matter what it costs, and it costs to serve. It's controlling, 'I gave to you, now you owe me, you're now in my debt, acknowledge it.' find depth and appreciation by finding this cultural pattern and include what you like about it, not what you don't like. The 'in' crowd at school simply gave their attention to what they liked and not what they didn't like. Are you not indebted to someone who loves you, isn't that what Nan is saying when she suffers? You don't have to suffer to receive your Harmonious Union, you don't owe guilt and no one gets to control you when you receive this great gift. Honour the gifts of love and appreciation and service, sacrifice doesn't need to happen to come closer to your Twin Flame.๐ŸŒด๐ŸŒป

๐ŸŒณ๐Ÿ’š๐ŸƒYou never have to lose any part of yourself to be with your man or woman. You're not abandoning any of your loved ones. You are not limited, you don't have to split your love among others and the more there are, the less they get. That's not how love works. You'll be expanding the love you share with family and friends, by pursuing your dreams you'll be coming closer to them. Love grows by following your heart and pursuing your dreams, closeness in your heart is what matters. In the material world it looks like we have limited resources. Are you a loaf of bread and have to save the crusts for your Twin Flame while your family has the rest, and do you feel your Twin Flame will be OK because they have their own family? No, you want to give all of you to your Twin Flame and all of you to your family and the Divine, but how is that possible? It's immaterial, you can give all of your spiritual self to everyone. Is this a block where you feel like you need to split yourself? You're only abandoning yourself by not following your heart. Others' feelings are not your responsibility, of course people will be emotional as you do big things.๐Ÿท๐Ÿ‰

๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿˆ๐Ÿฅ‘It takes maturity to be bold, to make decisions and move with confidence and assertiveness, it's OK to do that, you can only be responsible for your own feelings, you still have to do what you desire to do. If someone is so upset that they impede you, work through it. You've still got to do you, it's an emotional process of making big life changes. Be compassionate with yourself, have patience with yourself. Learn the lesson and go beyond that, it's OK to look at your life and work it and express it, it's OK to make mistakes, it doesn't matter in the end. The idea that the collective is experiencing separate things is an illusion, your burden is my burden, we're all one, the idea that we're separate is an illusion. When any one of us conquers anything, we conquer it for all of us. The crucifix was a torture device, now it's a symbol of the resurrection, it now represents the way out of fear, the way out of hell, fear has no power.๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’

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