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  • Writer's pictureRachel Carro

Your Twin Flame Reflects All The Love You've Given Yourself๐ŸŒ„

Updated: Feb 3, 2023

๐ŸŒบ๐Ÿ’—All and any patterns that you can see playing out in your Union right now, can all be easily uprooted and resolved. Remember, your Twin Flame is not someone else, you're not disarming them, whatever they show you, you're seeing your own response to Love. Just showing up and being yourself makes all the difference, not trying to get a result. You don't have to do anything to change them. If they are inferring that you're not getting any closer, which is the issue for pretty much everyone, it's showing you your own response to Love, it's nothing to do with the Twin Flame. You don't need to push or defend against Love, Love doesn't hurt, hurt isn't real. Love doesn't demand anything, it just chooses to love without conditions. Just love this place, you don't have to focus on the Twin Flame, it's all you, it's your feelings about Love.๐ŸŽ€

๐Ÿท๐Ÿ’œIf your Twin Flame is not coming closer, you're not coming closer to Love. If part of you is feeling separate, your Twin Flame really is a mirror, they're not a separate person. Detach and realise the Twin Flame energy is just you and Love within yourself. Focus on your relationship with Love, not on an individual. How do you feel about Love being safe? You don't need to protect yourself from Love. All Love comes from Source and will never come from the Twin Flame, so it really is just you and you, you and the Divine. Be guided by the Divine as to how and when to communicate, build that friendship. It's really just an energy you're creating in yourself where you are being your own friend. You'll see with them how you feel about Love, what kind of relationship you have with the Divine, so if you want to go deeper, it's time for you to go deeper with yourself and the Divine. All relationships begin with the foundation of friendship and it unfolds naturally at you heal and have a relationship with the Divine.๐Ÿ‡

๐ŸŒŒ๐Ÿ’ŽThere are a lot of places we are being pointed to that we have to clean up, we may have left a situation in the past, but there may still be a feeling attached to it. The minute you spot a place in your past, you've made a choice to go and be with yourself and heal abandonment. The Twin Flame is a mirror, if you look at the situation lovingly, you'll see that what felt like rejection isn't really was pointing to healing, recognise there's Love in it. They're pointing us to a place where we're wounded, not to hurt us but to say that there's Love needed there. Be with that part of you that experienced broken heartedness, you don't have to dive in and relive the whole thing, just acknowledge it. If it feels bad, it must be an illusion. Let this part of you know that it believes in something bad and only Love is real. All the feelings that were bad come from a belief in separation from Love.๐ŸŒ

๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ’šIf we project Love and our Source outside of ourselves, we feel the need to control Love. It means making a condition and it feels bad because people have free will and won't always do what you want them to. We can't demand that someone loves us, because it's not unconditional Love, it's trying to control and manipulate them, it feels bad for both. The piece to realign here is the awareness that Love is something you are. Let yourself know within that you are One with Love. Choose to release separation from consciousness. The minute we know it's an illusion because it feels bad, we can choose to surrender that belief, it must be a lie. What do you choose instead of not being able to have Love? Choose to give yourself all the Love that's yours. Your choice is most powerful. You're stepping out of that pattern every time you go into the feeling of not being allowed Love. You just release that energy and choose to give yourself Love. Keep doing it every time it comes up, that's you dismantling the pattern.๐Ÿƒ

๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒดIt'll come up again and again till it's clear. Because it's going, you may experience the feeling of not being allowed Love as it's leaving. Nothing's gone wrong, the patterns are on their way out. Choose to let go of the pattern and surrender it completely. It doesn't serve you to have that pattern or hold onto that belief. Hold onto the truth that the Divine created you. The Divine wouldn't give you a Twin Flame and then say you can't have them. This may be a direct projection of one's early life on the Divine, "I'm going to give it to you but not let you have it." It may be a pattern from simply being told as a child you couldn't have what you want. That's enough to give you that pattern, it means you can't honour your feelings. It's on the way out, you san step out of the pattern by recognising it's there and surrendering it. There's that pattern again where I feel I'm not allowed Love. Recognise it's illusion and surrender it and choose what you know is the Truth. And you do that again and again and again and go deeper and deeper and deeper, layer by layer, and in a short time it will be gone. If we feel we're not allowed Love, our Twin Flame is also feeling that, it creates the illusion of separation.๐ŸŒต

๐ŸŒž๐Ÿ’›Your Twin Flame is you. If you have a pattern where you feel like you have to control Love, your Twin Flame will say no thanks and will be over there, seemingly not making any contact as you work through that pattern. You can't control Love because that's placing an expectation on it and demanding that Love be this and demanding that Love comes the way one is expecting. That's trying to control the Divine, Love itself. All we do is invite Love into your heart, fill up with Love within yourself, and your Twin Flame will reflect the Love you have given yourself, without demanding it from them. Your Twin Flame is not the source of Love, so if you look at them to get Love, you're looking in the wrong place, they'll back away. It's one hell of a concept to understand, that your Twin Flame is you, that takes time to grasp, so go deeper and deeper with that.๐ŸŽ

๐Ÿช๐Ÿ”ฅWe see the person and think they're a different person than us, but really, it's the same consciousness as you, just playing out in a different way. Heal everything in your Union just by healing your own attitude and feelings about Love. If you've been holding onto Love to keep it, the Divine will show you how to let go of that completely. Surrender. Lots of things are coming up from early life. We're brought up by people who don't understand Love either, we're learning through this journey how to love. It's fine to desire Harmonious Union, but don't create expectations, that's not Harmonious Union. There can be a tendency to want to have signs that something's going to happen, is there and energy of impatience there? You're not in control of when it happens. It's all the Divine. Harmonious Union is a vibration beyond that which needs to be attained as well. The attainment means the grounding of it, the maintaining. It's OK, it's a process, you'll arrive in it naturally and effortlessly when it's time to do that. Your happiness doesn't come from your Harmonious Union, it comes from the Divine here and now.๐Ÿงก

๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’ฅLet impatience go, it pushes away everything you really desire, let it go, it's forcing, grabbing, belief in lack. There's a huge theme at the moment about claiming power. Every time there is an uplevelling in frequency, the previous vibration maxes out and you immediately find yourself in the bottom layer of the next level, and you may experience a bit of a wobble, but realise you're heading towards the next breakthrough. You may also find you're moving through the energies really quickly. Whenever you feel impatience, surrender it and choose patience. If it's not come in yet, there must be a reason and you can trust the Divine here. You don't want your Union to come in and it not be compassionate or not the right time. The Divine knows what She's doing in terms of how your Union comes in. You can anticipate but that's just pushing against letting the Divine do Her thing.๐Ÿ’ข

๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’žTrust the Divine and know that when your Union comes in, it won't feel any different because you're just going to be with yourself and all the same feelings. your Twin Flame is not a magic thing, they're just an amplifier of your feelings, so if you're mastered enough that you can be present with yourself for sustained periods, you're not just going for the high and going in and coming out of Union. Make sure it's sustainable and patience implies trust, one of the keys to your Harmonious Union, it's something to be mastered. Understand the process you're in. You build your relationship with the Divine, you build your relationship with yourself. If you don't trust the Divine, you don't trust yourself. How does that feel relating to any impatience? How do you feel about the steps you are taking? Where's the impatience stemming from? It's OK for your progress to feel gradual, I'm sure it feels that way for every single Union, but as your Union comes together, it becomes very very obvious why you needed all that time.๐Ÿท

๐ŸŽ€๐ŸŒบIt's not compassionate to heal every upset in one shot, you don't want to blow a circuit or overload the socket. The right amount of healing happens each week. Give yourself all the loving acceptance you need, all the peace and encouragement you need, this has been coming up a lot lately. Claim all of yourself, your true identity regardless of what other people think. You're not here to please others, you're here to please your heart and the Divine. It only matters how you feel about yourself. Is there any part of you that you need to give Love to so it can express freely. As you're healing within yourself, you're meeting your Twin Flame in all these places and you're receiving the recognition and understanding and deepening and accessing Love and awareness. Understand your process. Especially if you've been healing with your real Twin Flame, especially over a period of years. Consciousness goes to all these different places, you can heal these past experiences and go deeper into Love there.๐Ÿ’œ

โ˜”๐ŸŒŒIt's not really a falling in Love, it wasn't a feeling coming in, the Love was always there, it's an awareness, an awakening to that Love. The realisation can hit in an instant, like a fucking sledge hammer! We always knew the idea of this but we didn't know it was a real thing. Recognise you were attracted to people like your Twin Flame, there's aspects of our Twin Flame in all the partners we've had, and there's aspects of us in their partners. They're always looking for us, we're always looking for them. Acknowledge that even if to the outside, you and an ex may have looked like a unit, it was just your energy about it. It's OK to let go of the pretending energy. Call in clear speech, clarity, choose to be heard, choose to clear any blocks to expression. Misunderstanding is a key block in all Unions. It's safe to express clearly and peacefully. It's safe to ground your communication. Choose to be close with yourself, intimacy is safe. It's safe to communicate your feelings clearly, you'll inevitable need to do it in Union. Everything about the Twin Flame, we own it, it doesn't matter what they're doing, it's all you. Go to the place you feel vulnerable, give yourself all the safety you need. You won't abandon yourself if you open up, choose to be with the Divine, choose to be with yourself for all Eternity.๐ŸŒ

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