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  • Writer's pictureRachel Carro

๐ŸŒŒTwin Flames ~ You're Created By Unconditional Love, To Be Loved

Updated: Feb 3, 2023

๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒบThe way the Divine works isn't to say, "I'm going to fix everything in a linear way," God just says, "The way to what you want in through." So go all in, love fully. You can't be hurt by somebody else, if someone calls you a purple banana and you feel upset, no, that's just us choosing to be upset. If your Twin Flame says something you don't like and you heal it, you won't care what they say. And if they're the real Twin, as you heal these patterns they'll reflect something else, it may not be obvious straight away. However, a Twin Flame can be unkind, if we're being unkind to ourselves, and so that's when we set a boundary. You never have to accept bad behaviour from anyone. Being angry and hurt is never going to get you Love, it's not the right way to get Love. Go be with this part of you that's calling for Love, don't keep yourself waiting a moment longer. Notice that showing up for yourself is loving presence, and that's where the healing begins, just by the choice to be there. Reassure yourself that the Divine has always been here for you, the Divine never left, you can have as much Love as you desire, please know this is the Love that never leaves. It's exactly what your heart needs, just know that it's within you.๐ŸŒท

๐ŸŽ€๐ŸทLove's not on the outside, give yourself all the Love you need, fill yourself up inside so you feel fulfilled and filled with Love. Let go of resistance to being loved, that's a really important part of healing. It's safe to trust yourself, to trust your heart. Validate all the feeling you're having in your heart, they may not be the ones that you want, but acknowledge them, validate them. Having a bad feeling simply means that there's something there misaligned with Love, and another way of saying that is, it's a call for Love. We're not judging the feelings, we're just noticing that something here isn't quite aligned, bring Love to this place that doesn't feel aligned, receive that Love. Imagine and visualise whatever feels good, honour your own healing journey, it's unique. There's nothing wrong with your feelings, they're indicating either alignment or misalignment. This journey is about recognising all of them and just loving yourself where you need that Love, no judgement needed. It's so much easier to heal when we give ourselves permission to feel our feelings.๐Ÿฉ

๐Ÿท๐Ÿช€Know that you can resolve anything, we don't even need anyone. Sure, we can claim support, but it's also easy to love yourself, easy to be with yourself. Even if you're resisting, ask, "Why am I resisting? I know, I need something else here." You're building that relationship with God and yourself and your Twin Flame within, building trust, building communication, you're showing up for yourself. It's safe for you to learn that process. We learn how to love ourselves unconditionally, when we say you're allowed to have any feeling we're saying, "I will love you no matter what." give yourself unconditional Love, choose to be your best friend and say, "I will show up for you, no matter what you feel because I know how to help you heal, I know how to bring you Love, I choose to do that." It's really important to feel safe, to have these feelings to be able to heal, to be validated. We're building a foundation for your healing moving forward, and strengthening that foundation. There's never any reason to withhold Love from yourself, there's no circumstance through which you would not deserve to have Love. You're always deserving of Love. Unconditional Love in yours, you're created by unconditional Love, to be loved, it's your birthright.๐Ÿฉฑ

๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ‡We all have our own recurring themes and patterns, for some, one of these is, "Can I commit here?" Give yourself what you need in order to commit to yourself, know that you're worth it. Committing to you is committing to god and your Twin Flame as well, it's all one. Choose to commit to Love. Choose to surrender any self judgement, it doesn't bring results, you can't be disappointed when you're walking God's path of Love, on this path there isn't anything but Love up ahead for you, and in the present moment for you. There's just Love, and all the things that feel bad along the way to get there are nothing to do with God. The Divine did not create bad feelings or want you to have those bad feelings, they just point to places where you need Love. There is no punishment, there is no judgement, there is no need to feel bad ever, but if we do, we don't need to feel upset about it, we can just choose to bring Love there, that is the journey. We can all go deeper into releasing self judgement, we all got used to not having Love, and we all got very upset about it, we thought there was a reason for it, but there isn't, there's no reason.โ˜”

๐Ÿงข๐ŸงฟValidate yourself, bring yourself what you need to feel all of the Love that you've been calling in. Be your own best friend, we come in with patterns and we live out that consciousness till it's healed. You deserve to be loved, you're not alone, you never were, allow yourself to feel gentleness and kindness, sweetness and safety, validation. You're worth loving, you always were, separation is just a nightmare that you're lifting out of your life, when you heal it goes, it leaves us. You are not your experiences, you're not defined by what you went through, you are always a Divine being, a Divine child of God. Recognise you cannot be harmed in truth, it was just a nightmare, you are safe with the Divine. Reclaiming yourself, lifting yourself out of the nightmare of separation, back into oneness. It's safe to be vulnerable, know that you are strong, you have God, you can't be harmed, you are just Love. Claim your innocence, we didn't know who we were before and we had a really bad time, but luckily, we found the way out, we must have earned that, remember you must have loved very very much to be able to be here now. You deserve all of that Love, all of that healing, all of that safety and protection.๐ŸŒŒ

๐Ÿ’Ž๐ŸŒ…We cycle round until we bring Love to the part of us that's really craving, recognising, "Here's a part of me that's really wanting you be loved." You can do that, you're so powerful, you are so connected to Love, and you're learning how to show up for yourself and it's OK not to be sure, it's OK to not quite get it because in each place in consciousness that feels separate from Love, you have to rechoose Love there. It's like we walk into a place of forgetfulness and here one must remember that they are Divine, that it was a bad dream, that one was safe all along. Healing can be easy and straightforward, and it takes a little while to get there and it's OK, you do get there. Remember that the relationship you're building isn't even with the Twin Flame, it's with you, validate yourself. Your feelings are real, they are true, even the ones that don't feel good. They're a call for Love, and you deserve to go running to yourself and saying, "I'm here, and I choose to love myself without conditions, and I choose to show up here no matter how I'm feeling, and I choose to hold myself and bring love there.๐ŸŒŠ

๐ŸŒ๐Ÿ€Building self trust, choose to trust yourself, your choice is powerful, so you're steering the ship of your life in the direction of self trust, and that feels very safe indeed, that's learning to be your own best friend. Ego is very dramatic and intense, it's a soap opera, and we don't need that stuff in our lives, we don't need to be living the soap opera. Anytime you feel the dramatic intensity of the upset you can just say, "Hey, I choose to release that." Intensity doesn't add anything to the journey, it doesn't add anything more. Healing can be easy and peaceful. Sometimes the feelings can come up strong and so just choose to release intensity. Choose for it to be easy. If We're used to intensity and drama, it might take a few goes to let that go, and that's OK. Maybe we've seen the way people have loved around us and it's chaotic but it doesn't need to be. It can be gentle, kind and peaceful. Love is peaceful, and we desire that peace and stillness because it's stable, it's not going to jump up and leave, it's going to stay, and that's what we desire. We desire the Love that sits with us and stays. So we need to be that for ourselves, the Love that sits with us and stays.๐Ÿฅฆ

๐Ÿƒ๐ŸYou're not responsible for healing your Twin Flame, they are, but you can heal your Union by healing yourself, and the results will show up with your Twin Flame. An unpleasant conversation can shift just through one healing like this. One choice to be your own friend can reflect in your Twin Flame. We don't go looking for it to, or expecting it to but it may show up there. Choosing to commit to yourself is a big part of your journey. No more invalidating, no more judging, you haven't done anything wrong if you experience a misaligned thought which comes from a choice of separation we've all made, that we all are now undoing. The Divine doesn't recognise separation, not even a thought of separation, She does not see any of our separation, because it did not happen. You and God are one, you and Love are one. When we bring our attention away from drama and intensity and fear and we focus on the truth, which is, "Oh, I'm just with God," God's path for us may look very long, it may look very all over the place but it's the way home, we just walk that path.๐Ÿ

๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿ’›Focusing on yourself, that focus is Love, loving attention, wherever you place your attention you're loving, and you deserve that. You come before all others, next to God, that is the correct prioritisation, your day begins with you, your day ends with you, your day is being with you all the way through the day with God. There's no separation, whatever you desire from your Twin Flame, give it to yourself. When somebody else loves us on the outside we're not really receiving the Love on the outside, we're receiving it in our heart anyway. It's always an internal process. You can release the old ways of loving, it's not really loving to say, "I'll love you if..." That's an exchange, real Love says, "I don't care how you feel, I don't care what you say, I don't care whether you love me or not, I'm going to love you anyway." Love loves, Love doesn't need a reason or an excuse to love, it just loves. You can give that to yourself, that's how you're going to practice loving others, by showing up and loving yourself first. You have to know how to do that inside before you can give that to somebody else.๐ŸŒž

๐Ÿฅญ๐ŸŒญChoose to integrate into your life and your reality this new foundation, this new awareness, the choice to love yourself unconditionally, to show up, to put yourself first, to validate yourself. Release drama, choose God, the Divine is your Ultimate Lover, the Divine is the way to Harmonious Union, it feels good to commit to God. That's you stepping deeper into your oneness. That's you ending separation in these areas, there's nothing greater you can do for yourself that that. A lot of heart healing, you get your joy back when you've released all the bad feelings, things will get happier. It feels great to be able to recognise a previously unnoticed piece of separation and acknowledge, "Wow, this part of me really doesn't know about Love." That's what's healing, between oneself and the Divine and the Twin Flame. Finding a big piece of separation consciousness doesn't mean anything about you. It's always something you can resolve, we have to make sure we create space for every feeling to come up, just feeling it doesn't make it real, it doesn't make separation real, it's just a feeling that needs to be released, it's just your heart saying, "I desire to be with my Twin Flame."๐Ÿงก

๐Ÿ…๐ŸŠYou are not your feelings, you are a Divine child of God, one with Love, one with your Twin Flame, you're not helpless, you're not powerless, you're moving through everything perfectly. You were created with your Union, it's part of who you are, it's yours already, you and your Twin Flame are one. It's OK if you're acting something out right now so you can exit the nightmare, forgive your Twin Flame for acting out that part of the pattern so you can heal it. Your Twin Flame will not be having a whale of a time if they're acting out a pattern that's hollow, unfulfilling and not you, they'll be acting out the lack of you over there, it's not happy for them either. All you have to do is move one upset at a time through any bad feelings coming up, release, and remember, only love is real, you and your Twin Flame are one, and that's the only Truth that will ever be true.๐ŸŽ

๐Ÿ’–๐ŸšฉThe rest of it can be released, the rest of it is the nightmare, the rest of it is what you are letting go of, and when we can do that consistently, then we have said no to the ego. But if we ke

ep buying into the story, the minute we feel not so good, the energy's going in that direction, so do it God's way, it might be longer, it might seem all over the place, it might seem like we can never make it, there may be mountains to climb, but that's the way to Love, and that's the way god asks us to go and we don't know where everything is panning out that way but it's God's way, it's secure, there's only Love in that direction. we can choose to say, "OK God, I'll do it Your way, I'm going to trust You and even if it takes this long, I know that You're leading me this way for a reason." Your Twin Flame is you and if you're not having a healthy relationship with yourself, your Twin Flame will come in and reflect that, and it maty not be compassionate. Just love yourself and then you can reflect that with your Twin Flame.๐Ÿ’

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