🌷🌺We'd only feel the need to control if we thought it wasn't happening lovingly, perfectly and beautifully for us. Whenever we're trying to control, fear will always be at the root of it, it's related to codependency, needing to get one's needs met, what that need that one's trying to meet by controlling? Trying to control Love, we call that looking for Love outside ourselves. Turn180 degrees and face your heart. What do you need in that place where you keep reaching outside of yourself for relationship? Just let all the Love in, as you do that, choose to release codependency in this place. Let yourself fill up in real Love, the Love that supports your dreams, the Love that shows up for you unconditionally, the Love that is your best friend, your partner, your lover, your teacher, that's all we're doing. The Divine is your Ultimate Lover, the Divine is your feeling when you invite Love in, it's always the Divine, it's always safe to turn to the Divine for everything you need.🌸
🎀🩱Choose to have Divine relationships and Divine friendships. The Divine is the primary relationship you're always looking for, release the pattern of looking for the Divine outside, in people. You have relationships with people through shared Purpose, and Purpose is simply an expression of you, Love through you, into your Purpose, into the reason you were created. So it's only natural that you will be doing your Purpose together with your Twin Flame. The filter is different for everyone, the shared Purpose is just Love. The Love and support you're asking for on the outside will come but first you must give it to yourself within, because if others are reflecting that they're not for your dreams it must be because there's somewhere inside where you're not supporting yourself. Give yourself that support now, because the more you support your dreams, the more you stand committed and true to your desires, the less you'll attract people who are not aligned with you. How does it feel to be your own best friend here, to be your own champion? It's safe to release all relationships that no longer align.🍷
💜🍇Everything's inner, if there's an idea that there's a scarcity, just turn 180 degrees within. It's not up to you, ever, to find Love, you may have grown up believing that you had to do everything, putting a lot of energy into accomplishing and achieving. Normally one would do it this way, working really really hard, seeking to do and look and to do, but it's so easy with the Divine. She just floats you in the direction you want to go. It's the getting out of your own way feeling, let the Divine bring you everything that's already yours. You're going deeper here, surrendering more and trusting more, that's really your journey, keep surrendering and trusting more again and again and again in all these places, and recognise that you are so powerful, you have everything you need within you. You don't have to fight for Love, "Tell me what I need to do, where I need to go and look." No, Love is already there, it's effortless, it's easy, when you heal the blocks it just arrives, boom.☔
🧢🧿You don't have to do something to get Love, it's just there. Our job is to simply to find the blocks and put Love there, and when that pattern is dismantled, everything's there. There's nothing to get, just make the choice, and that steers the ship, the ascension ship that you're on, it steers in the direction of your choice. You just move those icebergs out of the way, and you're going to end up there. You're going to end up on that beautiful island, with all the things on it that you want. More floating, less paddling. It's counter intuitive, the whole way we're designed to live has to be relearned, this whole journey is reversing everything. What's yours is already here, you called it in so it's right here, but until our vibration matches it, it can't whoosh into our reality. You have this desire for these new relationships, this new way of connecting, give it to yourself and then externally it will present itself. Anytime you think it's outside of yourself, spin round to your heart, you can have it right now, there's no delay, there's no lack, there's no getting. 🌌
🌊💎You are an extension of the Divine, when you're loving you, you're loving the Divine, you're loving your Union, you're bringing Love into your vibration. Don't forget, we're attracting, not grabbing, you're magnetising. What is ours is naturally going to arrive, because it will match us. It's so much easier, just wait and see. With interpersonal relationships, it's sometimes about you recognising whether there's Love in that connection, is it a Divine relationship? If it's not, there'll be a continual bad feeling, because that person isn't in a relationship, they're in an antagonistic pattern with you. No one can harm you, rather than doing anything to you, they're just showing you. It's good to notice patterns like this as you go deeper into the core, all these things are potentially blocking you from your desire, energy leaks here, seeming blocks over there, it feels very very good to find all these things.🌅
🍀💚If there's nothing seemingly happening between you and your Twin Flame, there must be some numbing somewhere, if there's no contact or you're feeling stuck, it has to be something you can't feel, there's got to be a reason for it. It's not happening to spite you, it's not happening to withhold something from you at all, it's just a feeling that we need to reach within ourselves. We can just merrily go through each feeling that comes up, knowing that's the way to unclog that numbness. Once you know you're Divine, you know you're not your blocks, you're not these ego ideas. You can let it all go, it becomes easy to heal. The pattern only has power if we choose it. Our job is to simply know that it's a pattern, identify it as such, and remove the power from it, so it can collapse. That's why Love is easy, because it's what's there when all of that collapses, it's already there.🌄
🍃🌵You're not separate from your good, everything's unfolding the way it's meant to, and it's different for every Union. We just keep going, like I said, one day you collapse the pattern and then boom, everything's there. We don't know how near or far that is, we just keep going, we don't do the inner work for the result, we do it because it feels good. The result is already ours, we do it to feel peace now. We've just made choices, even if they were subconscious, to walk away from ourselves, that might just be denying our heart. Prioritise yourself and the Divine, and recognise your desires are from the Divine. Choose to value your passions, they are valuable. They are unique to you, you're just being who you were created to be, the world needs you to do that. Everyone needs to be themselves, because that's what makes you perfect, that's what makes you part of the harmony of everybody.🌴
🌱🍐Pessimism doesn't serve you, it's never going to be the truth, it's another form of doubt. Doubt arose from your conscious choices, so choose to let that go, receive sureness, stability, steadfastness, sturdiness, (a bit of alliteration there 😚). Every feeling must be validated, give yourself deep, core reassurance. It's already a done deal. Love is already yours, nothing's ever going to change that. All you do is just meet each of these feelings, again and again and again, just delivering the truth. If you're healing every day, if you're bringing Love to the places that are feeling sad and upset, and if it's helping you feel better, that is the progress. The success is in feeling peace now. The goal is not the Union or that thing up ahead, it's about focusing on what the goal actually is, and that's healing the next upset. It's moving into deeper peace, because your Union is already yours. If we think we have to get there, we are basically saying it's not here.🍈
🍋🍍It's just peace you seek, tune in with the Divine, if we're reaching for something outside other than the Divine, we're saying the Divine's not enough, that we want something else. Going deeper, detaching from the idea of the Union being our salvation and remembering that it's actually the Divine, it's Love itself. We're not separate from the Divine, and neither are we separate from our Union, but we must understand that the Divine is our Ultimate Lover, that's the correct order, if we're focusing on the Twin Flame, then we're not seeing clearly. Bring yourself openness to your desires, give yourself access to them. Give yourself permission to receive them, touch them, experience them, because that's a place where the Divine is the desire, something blocked off from the Divine in that place, let Love fill that space. Don't ever be stingy with your Love for yourself, ever, be generous with your Love. Tell yourself how beautiful you are, how loved you are, you are your own Twin Flame. You don't need to be living with discomfort, you can heal everything.🌞
🍠🍗Keep going, somewhere along the line that Union is going to manifest, but until then you need to be living that happy life that you deserve, and you need to be recognising where in your environment you're compromising, where you're settling for less, where you're not happy, where you're uncomfortable, physically, mentally, emotionally. It's bout being present with yourself, your feelings, your body, feeling into it, finding out what's the emotion there that's causing that. Everything is showing something, you're now ready to take a look there, it's OK, it can take a while sometimes before we're ready to access these places. You're nobody's source, if other people are not happy with you being yourself, they're just showing you who they are, and you learn that just be loving yourself, you can be with Love and with people who do love you. But you're never going to have Love taken away. The Divine never removes relationships, unless they're going to be replaced in some way, so you're not going to be abandoned or left alone.🍚
🍅🍎Choose to see your value, that's what gets reflected in all your relationships. Choose also to release relationship with the idea of a false God who pulls the rug out from under you. Choose instead, deeper connection to the Divine. The Divine gave you these dreams, your Purpose is the reason you were created, it's the gift of you, the expression of your energy doing what feels good for you. When you love yourself, recognise you're paying into that bank of you, you're filling up on Love, which is also money, energy and abundance. Fill up first then extend, and the people around you will receive great value, not over extend, give when it's appropriate and stop when it's appropriate. Refill your cup, and we do that again and again and again and have a self replenishing flow of abundance. Number one priority in your life, you loving the Divine and loving yourself. Enjoy your expansiveness, allow it to grow, and go even beyond what you thought was possible, recognise that the Divine has the vision for your life, for your purpose, She knows exactly who and what to bring into your life, it's all taken care of, all you do is just cultivate this peace within, so that you're in alignment already for when it comes, you see it, you acknowledge it, that's all you do, showing up for yourself.💥
💖🧧Let's go a little deeper here and see how it feels to go even deeper into this expansiveness. Feeling bored means being in a place without the Divine. Are you afraid it's going to be like this in the future? Invite the Divine into this place, see if it can expand even more, does it feel possible to go beyond? There is no end to an Eternal being, there is no end to Love, there is no end to the Divine, you are an extension of the Divine. Living life with your Twin Flame aligned to Love, you will continue to grow and expand unimaginably, through all of the time to come. We can't even imaging what that's going to be like. There are many many many facets to you that you as yet have not explored. It's a vast journey ahead of Love, of Purpose, of sharing, of opening up, of being more you, and just loving who you are. Recognise that the Divine created you, and there's nothing about you that is not wonderful and perfect. Choose to release judgement and limitation, and not good enoughness. Let all that go, fill up of Divine Truth which is you are Divine, you were created that way, nothing will ever change it, nothing can diminish that, not any ego thought can ever change it.🌹
🍒🚩No need to be afraid that you're going to leave yourself, find out what you need there to feel fully loved. Give yourself permission to be creative, creativity is your sacral energy that's important to your Union. Allow yourself to do that, it's what the Divine did when She created you. Let yourself know you're never going to leave, choose to stay with yourself and all of your creativity, all of your beingness, all of your Purpose, and claim it. How does that feel? Invite yourself to express in the way that you need to, that's you fulfilling your purpose in the way you were created to be, it's natural and normal for you, claim it. It may not be for others but that's for you, you just follow the desire in your heart, honour it. Honouring it is honouring the Divine and honouring yourself. That's all you ever have to do on this journey is just honour your desires in your heart, honour your feelings, because not honouring your feelings feels terrible.🍷
🪀🩱Honour every single desire, you don't have to question it, it's given to you by God. Creativity likes a flow, remember everything done with God is more efficient, it's easier, it's better that anything we try to do on our own. Practice that flow, see how it feels, let it be easy. Choose to receive all the Divine insights for your next steps, easily and peacefully, lovingly. Just recognise that all you need to do on your journey is just heal that next upset. In the place where you desire your perfection, choose to give that to yourself, let yourself know you're already perfect because you were created by a Divine Creator. That desire for perfection is from your Creator, it's not about flawlessness, it's not about perfect steps, it's just about who you are, you're already that. It doesn't mean no mistakes, it means the openness and humility to grow. You're already that which you desire to be. You can have that all the time but we're learning to keep the tap open so it doesn't feel like it's gone, it's never ever gone.🎀
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