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  • Writer's pictureRachel Carro

๐ŸŒ„Twin Flames ~ Your Greatest Gift Is In Your Greatest Fear

Updated: Feb 3, 2023

๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒŠWe're Eternal, and we have as much time as we need, it's already planned out, it's already done, we just take the steps and we don't have to worry about timeframes, it's inevitable. When you've been on the journey a while and you see others coming up to the same junctures that you have, you can reassure them you can get through that. It gets better, those feelings coming up, there's an end to that. I definitely promise you that, just keep allowing the feelings to release, and one day it'll shift. The Divine will test you, She'll bring something up and you'll say, "I don't like it." And that's when the Divine will say, "Right, any more to come up? What do you choose now?" And you move through that as well, and it's Ok. God likes to make sure we've learned the lesson. Everything has a purpose, everything has a process, it's not random. Every feeling is completely accounted for, and your person is too.๐Ÿ’Ž

๐Ÿ๐Ÿ’ฅWe're undoing the choices we made of separation, and we have to undo them one at a time, and as we do that we are restored to our truth and it's safe. The end goal is inevitable, Union is there, all safe. And recognising the patterns really quickly, here I go again with that worry, seems to tie into this other worry. Really what life is, is just an ascension experience, and that's what you're doing, it may look like you're having this experience but actually it's just teaching you about what you need to heal. Bad feelings are never going to be the truth. Encompass yourself in complete Love, recognise your Divinity, you can's be anything less than Divine, it's not possible. Authenticity is your beauty, it means maybe the way you move, express changes a bit, but it becomes more authentically you. The more aligned to Love you are, the more you can just express Love. This goes beyond the rigidity of trying to prove something, and recognising that you're already it. You're already the bees knees.๐ŸŽƒ

๐ŸŒฑ๐Ÿˆif your greatest gift is not pressurising yourself, then your Union's greatest gift will be the lack of pressure, the peace, the relaxation, the flow. It's going to be fun to explore that one. Change can sometimes feel scary, but what exactly are we changing into on this journey? We're calling in our Divine selves. There's nothing about your Divine self that's not going to be to your liking. The only people we lose when we become our Divine selves are people who weren't actually loving us. How do we know when someone's loving us? When they don't try to control us, they allow us to be ourselves and they love us anyway. They don't tell us what we should be doing, being, saying, having, choosing. they're just present, they are supportive.๐ŸŒต

๐Ÿท๐ŸŽ€We show others what Love is by loving ourselves, it's safe to love yourself. You're responsible for loving yourself only, you don't always have to be the giver to other people, as before, show up for yourself as your own best friend. You're your own best friend, partner, teacher, Ultimate Lover, no matter how many tears there are, receive your own Love. That's the only thing you're responsible for, loving yourself. That's you loving the Divine and you loving your Twin Flame. There's nothing else to do, spend as much time here as you need. When you're at peace, it doesn't matter what others are up to. Choose yourself, claim yourself, commit to yourself. Let yourself feel that closeness, that support. Choose and claim God here as your Divine Parents and your Divine family, know that you can never lose those relationships. Choose to claim Divine relationships altogether, let them all reveal their Divinity, their Love for you. Claim your security and stability, knowing that Love can't leave you. Feel that container of Love in you filling up, holding all that Love within you, that can't leak away, it can't be taken, it's safe, it's all yours.๐Ÿฉฑ

๐Ÿงฟ๐ŸŒŒit's just you and Source, there's nothing in the world that matters outside this moment, just you having Love, receiving Love. You don't need to prove yourself to anybody. You're worthy of Love because you're here. Choose to claim your Divinity in this place within you. Just hold yourself, whisper in your ear that you know you are Divine, recognise your Divinity, see yourself as perfect, nothing will ever change that. It's Divine truth, our value does not come from what we do, it's innate. You're of the highest value, choose to honour and respect yourself. Choose to take back your power here, know that Love is within you. Love doesn't come from others, they're all connected to god too. Let go of that heaviness. We don't ever want to be afraid to heal, because it's actually the process of feeling that helps you heal. If we don't feel, we're not allowing the exchange of the illusion for the Love. so it's only when we feel that we can let go. If we can prioritise that, we're putting God first, that means sitting with yourself and feeling your feelings. Then bring Love there, when you're done and you feel peaceful, you can bring your Twin Flame in and have a hug with them in your heart, or you may find that they show up anyway, or your heart goes to them and feels Love for them.๐Ÿงข

๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’—You don't have to do anything to Love your Twin Flame, they are you. So if you're not getting Love from your Twin Flame it's because you're not loving yourself. It might just be one spot in consciousness, but we need to go there, we need to reveal these places within ourselves where we didn't feel we could be with ourselves. So this place where we didn't feel is a place where we didn't feel we could be with ourselves. And contrast feels mighty uncomfortable, it's a teacher, but we don't have to learn with contrast, it's perforable not to, we don't need to go through yukky experiences, we find we become more and more intolerant to feeling bad, the more refined we get, the more attuned we are to catching that feeling, "Ha, I'm not letting that one go, because that's going to fester and grow, I'm going to tend to it right away." And you'll find that there's no feeling within you that you can't tackle, just feel it through and let it go. If we don't know what else to do, just choose to feel, say, "I choose Love instead of this." Keep it simple. If we don't feel, we're kind of abusing ourselves in this way, we want to make sure we're treating ourselves kindly and lovingly.๐Ÿ’–

๐Ÿ€๐ŸƒThat involves the relationship with feeling because feelings are God. The more access you have to your heart, the more access you have to making choices that are aligned with Love, and when we're not feeling our feelings, we're not very connected in our hearts, and then we bumble through life and life starts to feel jolly uncomfortable, so clearing that away allows reconnection to God, reconnection to Union, reconnection to desire, reconnection to your guidance. Living a like not connected to one's heart is not fun, very uncomfortable. Follow your heart, it has divine intelligence, it has ease, it has peace, we can have that every single day, every moment of the day if we want to. It's us that's preventing that, us that can open up to what it means to love. Be willing to love yourself, you deserve it. Even if your family brought you up to not be willing, it's time to learn that. Compassion, kindness and forgiveness. Remember we're unravelling eons of choices of separation, and we need to accept that we made these choices and not be hard on ourselves because God doesn't see those choices, only we do.๐Ÿ’š

๐ŸŽ๐ŸŒžWhere we are now is just refining, because there's really nothing stopping your Union, it's simply the doubt and the old patterns playing out, that hold an energy in place, pushes things away. And it is very much about focusing on yourself, you can't afford to look over there, to look towards your Twin Flame for anything. Getting really mastered in this vibration that your Union is you, is in you. No lack, that can't be you, because it's all there. If you've been feeling into what is really your home, it will be playing out over there, in it's own way, and it's about grounding into really is home. The Divine is your home, it's within you. Your Twin Flame will be reflecting it in some way. It may be causing to you rearrange your living space in some way, but you may come to a point where you realise your space is no longer serving you and it's time to upgrade. You outgrow it spiritually, vibrationally.๐Ÿ’›

๐Ÿ€๐Ÿ’šIt's not about your Twin Flame, it's about your relationship with you, you can't get your Twin Flame on the outside, you can't seduce or tempt on the outside, that's not the right way to go about things. It's about you embodying the powers of attraction, that's really what seduction and attraction means, attract yourself, have that relationship with yourself, within, because you are your Twin Flame. Whatever you're guided to do, whatever you're guided to give yourself, to romance yourself is absolutely part of you loving yourself. It's not about them, it's about what you think is attractive. It's just about getting really really refined in what your feelings are in every single moment, and it gets easier and easier and easier. Nothing's going wrong, nothing's going too slowly, everything's unfolding as it's meant to. Appreciate the signs, the acknowledgements, you don't need to dig any deeper because you'll just set off a pattern, that you can just find by feeling your feelings anyway. Your Twin Flame is not outside of you, they're not something you have to do anything to get, it's an awareness within you that you choose to fall into. ๐ŸŒ„

๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒบIt's you loving you in the way that you love the Twin Flame. It's you loving yourself that much. That's exactly the place our Union is, is developing that relationship with ourselves so that we know we're the person that we have to fall in Love with. If we look to them, we're looking in the wrong place, it just leads to us focusing on something not within us. It's somebody else, and that's not who the Twin Flame is, it's you. You don't have to live with bad feelings, they're not who you are, they're just a pattern. When an upset comes up is it your default reaction to enter into a dialogue about it in your mind with the people involved? How does it feel having these conversations within yourself? These will never lead to healing on their own, don't get on step one of the Mirror Exercise. Take all the time that you need to make sure you're fully loved, give yourself all that loyalty and commitment you're asking for here, in the place where you may have taken away your good by focusing on fear, keep choosing Love.๐ŸŒท

๐Ÿ’œโ˜”Your good can never be taken, it's always with you, always has been, choose to align with Love in your heart in this place. Choose to always stay present with Love. The only way you can take your good away is by putting your focus on fear. If your thoughts go to that place, it's not serving you. All the world is a mirror of your own consciousness, if things are happening that you don't enjoy, you have the power to change that experience. You don't have to accept what isn't in alignment, you can't think your way out of it or project aggressive energy at it That's you leaving your good to focus on fear. It wouldn't be compassionate to be together if there's a pattern like this, it's be very uncomfortable, because this would just be playing out in reality. The collective is healing abuse at this time, ie, all behaviour that's very detrimental to us, it's a way of attacking ourselves that we've learned from others. You're just learning to love yourself, learning how to love.๐Ÿ‡

๐Ÿ’ฅ๐ŸPatterns of self abandonment are also being healed, some people grew up believing that abandoning themselves was the only way to get a little bit of Love, but you don't get Love by abandoning yourself, you get the opposite of Love, just the delusion of a relationship. Be present with this part of you, let it know that you're not going to leave, you have no intention of leaving. Choose to be loyal to Love, how does it feel to claim Love in your heart? Have compassion for yourself and the choices you made in the past, recognise you didn't understand how things really worked, now you do know the truth about Twin Flames and Love, and you can undo the old choices, you just have to take your time. Just gently undo all the ones that the Divine guides you to. Heal everything that comes up. Remember, it's not you that has to do it, if you're thinking that you have to do it, then that's not doing it with God, Surrender to the Divine to do the Union, the creativity, trust. Don't try to control how it's done, allow yourself to be shown.๐Ÿงก

๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒตYou'll complement eachother, expand eachother's gifts. The Twin Flame was always who we've been looking for and certain people came along who had different aspects of them, that's quite normal. Exes are stepping stones, feel into how those old relationships are healing within you. Fill yourself up inside with Love, recognise that any emptiness is just a call for Love, hopelessness is just something to release, what you desire is already yours. Show yourself loyalty and commitment, these are the core issues, the reason why separation feels bad, just go be with yourself, show up in that place, choose to be loyal to yourself, choose to connect with yourself, how does that feel? The good feeling strengthens with each one of these upsets that you heal, you just bring in another piece of you. There's a lot of pieces, you don't have to heal all of them to have your Union, just enough that it takes away the pushing away effect. That's all you need to do, we just want to take the charge out of that pattern. You want to be refined so you can run and meet each of these places really joyfully, really happily.๐Ÿƒ

๐Ÿงก๐ŸŽƒGive yourself compassion, Love, devotion, that's what you're after, that's all you need to do, if you stay stuck in step one of the Mirror Exercise, you're stuck in blame. Choose to surrender victimhood, you can't be harmed, you are the creator of your own reality, you're powerful. It's really up to you to love yourself, fall in Love with yourself. noticing that one has been sitting in their upsets rather than going through all the steps may be the result of having been healing a bit of a numbed out abuse pattern where we haven't been treating ourselves well because we haven't been treated well, and this may just be the way that it shows up within. That soon gets uncomfortable. We may have previously let them slip, but it's just because we weren't ready for that awareness before. You have the spiritual muscle now, you know how to heal, you are healing, this is the process of healing. This is you demolishing that pattern. Even a wrecking ball doesn't do it all in one go, it takes a few swings to get rid of a pattern. Chip chip chip away, then it collapses, that's exactly what you're doing.๐Ÿ

๐Ÿท๐ŸŽ€We've spent lifetimes coming up against these patterns and not being able to heal them. It's OK when a new pattern comes up and it feels a bit clunky, we have the mastery to move swiftly through it. In truth the Harmonious Union, it's just there, but it's the awareness part, it's the energy that pushes against, that is being dismantled, and rightly so. This is really core stuff, the self abandonment, the self betrayal parts that really count. So really, everything in the Union that you're experiencing, that you don't like is just something that we chose, and we have to accept that we chose separation to make a new choice of Union. And we have to just heal the painful feelings compassionately. No beating up, no aggression, time to drop the unpleasant dialogues, go straight to step one, say, "Yes God, I'm ready to go deeper."

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