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  • Writer's pictureRachel Carro

Twin Flames~ Facing Your Fears And Choosing Love๐Ÿ’˜

Updated: Feb 3, 2023

๐ŸŒŒ๐ŸŒBe proud of yourself for how far you've come, please know that things are changing for you, and in a good way! It's particularly crucial at this time, to differentiate between the Divine self and the not self, the ego self. The not self is about giving power away and putting the not self ahead of one's Divine self. Make sure you heal through everything that comes up, or it'll come back round in another form. Recognise the moment that the Divine is pointing you to something, it's always a feeling within. It'll make it so much easier to deal with triggers in the presence of your Twin Flame. Trying to control the situation is the opposite of being with the Divine. Relax into the knowing that you don't have to be doing, during these encounters, what you thought you had to do. No more should have, would have, could have, you let the Divine lead by getting out of the way, and just being present with Love. It's much simpler.๐ŸŒ…

๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ€We can complicate things because we're trying to create an outcome and we don't allow the outcome's Source, you just have to get out of the way and allow it to be. As you do so, support yourself as best you can. Don't forget, you're husband or wife material, not a one moment person, you have to acknowledge you're the husband or wife showing up, make an entrance. Choose to release all expectations, because that causes the pressure. Just let the Divine be present in whatever way the Divine knows best, without expectations, just let the Divine bring you everything you need. What does it mean to be with God? Being with your heart, with your feelings, it's nice and easy. If we ever leave our heart, we've left God, we've left our guidance. That's why we worry about triggers, because we think we'll be overwhelmed by the fear. Work through it, wherever you are, whatever's going on, just take a moment.๐ŸŒ„

๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒดBeing with the Divine is simply doing inner work (Mirror Exercise), and choosing to remain connected in your heart in your peaceful state where you're confident. Your presence is enough. Choose to have only Divine relationships, no one can take your Love away, it's yours. As you move forward every day, you'll find your meeting blocks, are you working through them? A common block that the collective is working through right now is honesty. Are you afraid that if you are honest, Love will leave you? Everyone is going to have to face their fears, this is about you, not your Twin Flame. The Divine is not going to tell you to do something with them, it's all about your relationship with you and the Divine first. It's not about getting your Twin Flame to come round, it's not about going to see them to check how much healing's been done. It's nothing to do with that, it's the energy you're holding in consciousness, your relationship with yourself, heal that, it's not about them. We're correcting the effects of the not self pushing out the Divine self.๐Ÿ’›

๐ŸŽ๐ŸŒžIf you feel that you have been sidelined in any way, bring yourself all the way back into alignment with Love, give yourself all the Love you need in this space. You don't have to worry about the not self. It doesn't exist, it has no power. Choose to claim yourself in this place. When you focus on you and your healing, that's when you're successful, when you focus too much on them, it's an energy leak. That's looking for Love on the outside, focus on that place within, claim the Divine in Love, it feels expansive and light. Give yourself anything else you may need so you can take your place permanently and eternally in this place. Integrate the pieces that feel complete back into your heart there, you, the Divine, your Union, all that's real. Choose to release any fear, it's safe to be grounded. What do you receive when you give yourself that? Peace, stability, steadfastness, choose to remain in your heart at all times and integrate.๐Ÿช

๐Ÿ”ฅ๐ŸงกIf you're feeling disconnected, choose to connect with yourself, choose to be found. Just bring yourself home into your heart and all the Love. This is the trail that the Divine is directing your healing. Unpinch the place in your heart that wasn't receiving enough Love, let all of the Divine in. Do you have a fear of not being loved? Claim yourself, choose to Love yourself, give yourself all the Love you need because that's what Twin Flames mirror, notice the more natural we are with out healing the easier it guides us. Do you have a fear of not being committed to? Give yourself all the commitment and devotion you need, give yourself all the attention you need for Eternity. You may find, that with the healing that you've done, the solar plexus area probably feels a lot better than it did, that's the power, your power returning. Most Twin Flame problems stem from powerlessness. Giving away one's power to people, places and things and say one can't have Love. That's obviously just illusion, but the solar is a big part of the work. We get winded by rejection and unworthiness.๐Ÿ

๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’ฅThis is a time of releasing codependency, because Twin Flames coming together, even though they are Twin Flames, that doesn't mean they won't be codependent. It has to be healed, making them the source is not the way to approach your Union. Either way you wouldn't be comfortable, because it'd be like trying to get Love from yourself without giving yourself Love. Drawing from an empty cup is not a nice feeling, it's a feeling of being taken from. Choose to be with yourself and remain with yourself in your heart. Can you love yourself ultimately? You have the power to choose to love yourself, nothing can pull you away from yourself. As for triggers, nobody can control what's already in consciousness, what experiences you do and don't have. You can, however, choose to learn through Love, not suffering, that's a choice you can make. You can't choose to avoid triggers in the future, as that's defeating the object of ascension. It's like saying one doesn't want to be loved. That's what makes people push Love away because they don't want to be triggered.๐Ÿ’ข

๐Ÿท๐ŸŽ€You're learning about yourself, you're leaning who you are. Receive Divine Love, there isn't a not self. You've never been anything other that who you are. What does it mean to be you? You don't need to do anything to be you. Release the fear that says that you have to be something other than you to have Love or you can't have Love. You can't be without Love, let the Divine guide you and show you what to heal. Go be with that part of yourself that feels it has to settle for less, what does this part need instead? Receive all of the Divine's good for you here, and nothing less. It's more than possible, it's Truth. Bring all of that choice into your heart. As you know, there's layers to this, there's lots of places in consciousness where the loving choice needs to be made. It's not endless, there is an end to it, it may just be a long standing pattern. But you don't have to be perfect to have your Union though.๐Ÿ’œ

๐Ÿ‡โ˜”go make all these places solid with Love. There's no reason why it has to be difficult or slow, feel the resistance dissolving. Give yourself unconditional Love and gentleness, reassure yourself that hurt isn't real, let that energy go. Receive all the Love. Claim your power and strength to stand on your own, you don't need a crutch anymore. Feel your strength and power returning, feel how you're now standing firmly and strongly. True Love is all yours, the real deal Love that never leaves. You never can be harmed, no matter what happens, no matter what triggers may arise. The triggers can't harm you, they're simply there to show you what place you need to love, that's what real Love does, it shows you where Love is needed. Choose to receive real Love. Love is restorative, you're restoring yourself with Love. Choose to see the Divine's strength and energy, instead of taking from yourself, choose to align with Love.๐Ÿ’Ž

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