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  • Writer's pictureRachel Carro

Twin Flames~ Grounding Deep Into Your Physical Union🍁

Updated: Feb 3, 2023

🎇💛There is a shift being made at this time from seeing Love in the Twin Flame 'over there,' in that physical presence, to being more present in oneself and realising that they're not another person and they're actually in you already, that's where your Union is. There's less of the sense of the other person-ness, that the Twin Flame is this other person that needs to show up for you, really, your Union is simply the awareness that it's already here. "Circumstances, blocking, unblocking, location, relationships, they're all irrelevant. What matters only is your own state of consciousness, and that's not complicated, it's so simple, the state is in Love and that's it, and you're already in Love. You just need to accept it and be that and let it be and when that's spread throughout your consciousness completely, you can't help but have Harmonious Union." Twin Flame Ascension School.🌻


🍃💚You're not looking outside for something to change or shift, or recognising this person or recognising this person in another body as your man or woman, it's just the awareness that your Union's within you. It feels good to not look to the outside at all, unless you're guided to, how does it feel to bring your energy within? Looking to the outside leaks a lot of energy, and that's where the control was. Trying to see if there's been a change, but it's not going to be that way, it's going to be the Divine's way. Focus on the Divine, and as that consciousness becomes your total awareness, that there's nothing outside of you, then you get your Union. You may feel like you should know this by now, but it's OK if we've studied spirituality for decades, we're shedding all the illusion and fear, so it's not like we've not known this for years, it's the embodying of it that's currently taking place, that's the difference, the true awareness, the true learning.🌍


💎💙Sit and be present with yourself, what's stopping you is the belief that you don't already have what you desire. You couldn't not have it because Love never left. It was just us scrambling about in the dark thinking it's gone when we just need to open our eyes. This is playing out in consciousness, how it appears as to why this person's not arrived yet, is there a lack of Love? Do you need glasses to see clearly? We'll find out when it happens but it's not so much that they don't know. There's something in the awareness that prevents the final steps clicking into place, and that's a resistance. The moment you say yes to the Love it comes in. The yukky feeling is the resistance and it's there to cloak the truth that it is there because we thought we couldn't have the truth. There isn't another person floating around that you're waiting for, it's just you and the Divine and your Twin Flame is you, so if your Twin Flame isn't living life with you, there's part of you that's not present with you. 💜


🍇🍷There are so many pieces and we just keep going until that final piece clicks into place. Take a moment to be present with yourself, what's the core feeling? If Union comes in is there a feeling of not being able to run the house of your Union? Go deeper, what is it that you may be resisting? What is it about having a real relationship, what feels bad about having something new? Is there anything to be apprehensive about? It's going to be smooth. Were you trying to imagine how your Union's going to play out, are you trying to control it? Choose to release any control. Can you approach your Union from the perspective that it's going to be like now, where you just talk through the feelings that are coming up? That's something you're well versed in. Does it make any difference whether your Twin Flame's with you as that happens or can they be in the other room or out on their bike or in their office while you do the inner work? Any way it shows will be OK, it'll be whatever feels best. Work through everything that comes up.🎀


💗💞Does your Union need to 'come in,' that's another belief many are holding onto, waiting for something. There's nothing that needs to arrive for you to have your Union, it's just you as you are now. What does Union feel like, what would you expect, what will you find behind the veil when it's lifted? Choose to see through the veil right now, don't wait, there's nothing you don't know now that's in your Union. So if it appears that your Twin Flame isn't seeing something, it's not true. You know what Love is, feel the Love in your heart, that's the Love for you and the Divine and your Union. If you're wondering what keeps the physical presence away, it's simply the resistance to that truth. It's like sitting in the waiting room when the door's wide open, waiting for something to happen. Your Twin Flame doesn't need to put glasses on to recognise you. They already have the awareness in their heart. The action step comes when you fully embody that truth within you that there isn't someone else, it's just you and Love.💖


💥🍁stay present with yourself in that place because we don't want to go to a high, you want to ground it into peace. Your Union is going to live in a grounded place of peace, if it goes high it's going to wobble. We don't want to make the Twin Flame the source either, because they're not. They can be off doing their own thing, going to Tesco, be in a grump, at their mum's, whatever and you are still with Love, your Love doesn't go with them, your Love is not where they are, it's where you are. Love is here with you. Ground into that awareness that your Union is already inside you, you don't have to wait for it, you don't have to reach for it, or wait for someone to realise you're their person. You know you're your person, the Divine is your Ultimate Lover, that's the truth. If we're reaching outside of ourselves, what are they up to, that's leaving your Union to do that. The Union is within, you have it. The Divine loves you just as She loves all Her children and you're worthy of all this Love, you certainly are. Allow any feelings of being abandoned by God to surface, bring this place exactly what it needs.🧡


🎁💛Give yourself all the Love you didn't realise was yours, it never left, nor would have ever left. You are that Love, Love Love Love, all the way through. Once you've found this core block, it's important to give yourself as much Love as you need. Tend to it. This is really what keeps the presence of the Twin Flame at bay. The core feeling of not knowing if Love loves you and the resistance is non-existent when you find this place, wahay, here comes the Love where you need it, choosing your Harmonious Union, choosing the Divine, there's nothing to fear here. Make sure you're fully loved in this place, return home to yourself here, luxuriate in that feeling, this is the core stuff. Is there any place in consciousness that still feels guilty, maybe for your Union not having happened already. Everything is aligning perfectly. Understand there's a price to pay through the healing to earn that reward. You're paying the price right now, it's OK to do that through your healing. Just commit to each next step, it wouldn't have been right to have done it faster or differently. The Love can't come in if there's still guilt, no harm has been done to your Union while you've been healing.🌴


🌄🍀Find all the little pockets still asking for Love. How does it feel in your heart to open up to your Twin Flame? Is there any feeling of hurt or rejection still there? Is there anything remaining to be dissolved? To get to this feeling of openness, you can see how all the previous steps must be resolved first, you have to feel safe to be able to open up. What matters is not that they texted you or are you speaking or whether you did it or you didn't, what matters is do you feel in Love right now? Where you feel grumpy you root it out and you heal it, the upset or pattern, and you find peace all the way along. Give yourself what you really need instead of any experience of rejection. Receive what's yours in this place. Love is yours, not some shabby substitute, not an imposter, not a second best. You don't want to have any of that, you want too have the real deal. How does it feel to receive the real deal? is there any resistance? Stay present with yourself, this is really an important place to show up.🌈


🌅💎Do you feel that you can have the real deal and everything that comes with it? You never have to accept less. Take back your power here. It's safe for you to accept you're a Divine child of the Universe, created to have all the Love the Divine created for you and you alone. Reject other people's ideas, they don't know, only God knows. Bring yourself the Love and the truth that you were created to have all this Love, that's how you were created to be, to have all your good, and you being present with this part of yourself is you not abandoning yourself, not rejecting yourself, feeling through it, loving yourself. Fully give yourself as much time and presence that you need. Keep inviting Divine Love in to fill this space with the Love that's yours. Remember, the Divine is your Ultimate Lover, the One who loves you perfectly, it's this Love you seek. Open the door, invite the Divine to love you here. Allow yourself to integrate that Love present, bring it back into your heart, melting in, that's what you want, bring it all home, grounding it. We want to anchor that into your truth and your entire being.🌍


🧶🍃You may want to revisit that feeling, it may want to upheave, remember this is a deep core block, feeling abandoned in this place and unable to have one's good in this place. Just healing a pattern of feeling rejected and abandoned by Love, that's it, there's no other reason why you can't be physically with your person other than this pattern, it ties into everything. It doesn't mean that there's not Love in your Twin Flame's heart, it doesn't mean that there's no recognition there. As one Divine Masculine put it, he didn't want to admit it, because when you admit you're not with your heart, you have to admit you're in an unacceptable situation. They're going through exactly the same stuff, the same sort of problems that their counterpart's having, it's nothing to worry about. That's why you're on the journey and when you've completed it, you know what needs to be done. This is what it's like to be right there at the core. It's going to be easy to dismantle, it took all these years to be able to get to this point to be able to be present with the core wounds and be able to move through them effortlessly.🌴


🌱🍈You couldn't have done this years ago, you're either in the process or you're not, every step is important somehow. We don't know how, we don't know the reason for our Unions, we don't know the purpose of our journey. It's for the Divine to reveal everything in due time. By looking outside we're saying that we've done some healing so it's time to check if anything's changed. Simply loving yourself is the reward, the payment, bringing the Divine into the part of you that hadn't had the experience of the Divine thus far. Our Twin Flames are us, they make decisions based on what we have in consciousness. Just keep forgiving yourself, there isn't another person, it's just you. If you're upset with them it means you're upset with yourself, and when you've healed that within you you've healed that in your Union. The subtleties help you live your everyday Union. There'll be no new surprises, there's not any new feelings to have. You've already been having them, and you're ready to access the things that got stuffed down because you now have the tools.🎇


🌞✨You do have the tools now. Don't think that if you let up the deep stuff it'll engulf you, no, it'll be a breeze because you know what you're doing. You want to be cleaning up good and proper and creating the best foundation for you. All the little bitty pieces are cumulative and they're creating a foundation for you, or they may point you to a deeper pattern and you notice that this relates to that and helps piece everything together. Nothing's going to happen, you just release a pattern so everything pings back to it's natural state. It's no big deal, the feeling is the way, so you can focus on you and your feelings. Relax into it. You can access your Union, you don't need someone else to do it for you. Get clear on your heart's true desires, follow your guidance. The Divine is not outside of you, the Divine is literally your heart, be receptive to the Divine nudge for as to what to do next.🧡



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