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  • Writer's pictureRachel Carro

Twin Flames~ Only Now Are You Arriving At This Ecstatic Joy*๐Ÿ’ซ

Updated: Apr 20, 2023

๐Ÿงถ๐ŸŒ„Trust that the Divine is taking care of you, feel into the endless river of peace, it's always there for you to tap into. It's critical to have a relationship with that peace, do that first to keep fear at bay. The Divine first, and then we can proceed with life. Don't flow without God, it's not about filling your tank and refilling when it's empty, you should be in constant connection to God, Your tank should always be overflowing. If your tank is still filling and emptying, don't be too hard on yourself. Work diligently, feel your feelings, that's what matters. God now, and that will give you the peace and resources you need to overcome your fears๐ŸŒด

โœจ๐ŸŒปWherever you're at with your Twin Flame, you'll always be deepening your Union, stuff will come up, you'll go through things which you wouldn't exactly call a fight, rather an experience. As you go deeper into Love and Union, things always come up for healing. There will be the experience of upset and upheaval, and especially as you're coming into Union there will be conflict and challenges, it's critical to learn the lessons in advance. The energy is so enormous, and to deepen the incredible closeness and intimacy, it takes an amazing commitment to God, and that brings you all the way through your deepest fears. If you're very gentle with yourself and you're in no great hurry to progress and ascend and your genuine approach is one of chill and ease, if you feel like when you have a disagreement with your Twin Flame it's no big deal, you can get through it, if you don't mind being slow about things, that's OK.๐ŸŽ

๐Ÿช๐ŸงกI'm not like that. I'm like a kid in a candy store, I'm like a commercial. I'm the way advertisers want kids to feel about their products. I'm a sucker for the Divine Nectar and the Divine is in charge. God's the advertiser who dangles better sex and deeper Union in front of me. "Yeah!" I say, "Hold My beer," says God. It may also be your approach to your Union, your life, your motivation for the Divine Nectar. Here's the mechanic. The more you want the good thing the harder you dive into the shitty thing. If you say, "Give it to me at any cost," God fucking will. See the enormous power you weald. Spirituality is real, power is real. Everyone will be humbled by the power of spirituality and God and their man or woman. If you want to dive into the good thing in your Union and if you're willing to pay the price and you have faith in God, by all means, dive in. If you're a bit tepid, be warned, this is the formula for going really deep and it will turn everything upside down.๐Ÿ

๐Ÿ’๐ŸซI was talking to a Twin Flame couple today who were saying how just this week, God broke their hearts open so that part inside could heal and it has and still is and still shall. They found that all of a sudden they were no longer able to communicate. Everything he was saying sounded perfect to him but incomprehensible to her, and vice versa. He felt like he had not changes anything he had agreed to in their relationship, everything was the same, but it was like she suddenly wasn't there, just this person he couldn't get through to, with just a few moments of her reminding him that she was still there somewhere. This was the core block they kept smashing against, when normally, when they found a block, they'd pour their whole life into it and love it and resolve it.๐Ÿ’˜

๐ŸŽ€๐ŸทBy the fourth day she was really depressed on the bed, saying how life had no meaning, and it came down to the choice of either Union or separation. In spite of all the sensible things they had said along the way and they were both so mastered, they both thought the other should do the Mirror Exercise. It was a patient process, he had to be patient with himself, that's why it's so important to check out the eight keys for Harmonious Union: honesty, trust, commitment, persistence, compassion, unconditional Love, forgiveness and respect. This was the kind of disagreement that would end most relationships, the darkness they were stepping out of was huge. He thought, Where is God? Where's my Love? Where's my Twin Flame? He felt numb, his most sacred relationship manifested into a person. The core of it was pretty well healed, they settled back gently into their foundation.๐ŸŽ†

๐Ÿ’œโ˜”He got to the point of complete surrender where he didn't know what to do, and then something magical happened, she started to work through the problem. God had brought him to his knees, to an even deeper humility. You should never feel shameful for seeing something new. The new level of humility led to the next level of confidence and healing and surrender, getting to know themselves deeper, finding themselves even more. The catalyst for what happened had been seeded about seven weeks earlier when they were out jet skiing. She could clearly see and feel that she desired more romance and she wanted to go deeper there. She decreed, "I desire more depth in romance, what doe I need to do, God, to deepen our romance." She said be careful what you wish for! She received a vision from God in this moment, she agreed this is what she wanted, thus it began. She could feel God presenting thoughts and feelings and tasks.๐Ÿ’™

๐ŸŒ ๐ŸŒ…She felt vulnerable because this process was revealing places where she was still holding onto control. It was s survival skill, a defence mechanism from childhood to protect her from abuse, but now this control was detrimental to her Union. She had to go there and realise what was holding their deeper intimacy back. She also felt brought to her knees and didn't know what to do, she surrendered completely. She knew that even though she looked like a psycho bitch, God had been leading her all along. She didn't believe God would have led her to this place to end her marriage, it didn't feel compassionate. This was a deep wound requiring deep healing. Both their hearts were broken open. It's very real when that happens, it impacts everything around you. If you desire God you'll have your most sensitive places raked through. It was a brutal grind but God never gives you more than you can handle, and you're the one directing Him.๐ŸŒ

๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ€They were broken open to new Love in their hearts, to Love and Union, they now feel much closer, much more connection, closeness, Love, appreciation. This is what this healing meant experientially. That night there was a thunderstorm and he likes a good storm, enjoying the comfort of the house through the contrast. But she had a mini freak out, she ran round closing the windows to stop the rain getting in. He didn't want to miss the storm but he understood that it was worth it to support her, even if it meant him being uncomfortable. Letting her close the windows was a small concession to make and it wasn't a compromise at all. He's not separate from his Twin Flame, nobody is. She was experiencing upset and anxiety and he supported her. He experienced a sick feeling in his stomach, it was what she had been feeling, but he faced it and it passed quickly. He had been avoiding it but God directed him to face it. We do face our feelings what God directs us, that's why one has to develop faith and trust.๐ŸŒ„

๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸƒYou are enormously Divine in your power. When God dangles that carrot, trust Him. Trust that He's directing you properly. Wherever you're at right now is critical for your development, and God has been eagerly anticipating this moment. Only now are you arriving at this ecstatic joy. God has His shit together, He always has done. He's never not known everything for the whole of Eternity. He knows what you're going to do and He's guiding you when you face things that seem life destroying. This experience my friends had destroyed their marriage so they could have a new one. The old breaks down completely so the new can be born. They had the same foundation but it was made new at the heart, at the core. He could have kept the windows open, but at the cost of developing closeness. If both partners are selfish, there's no relationship. But neither has to compromise ever. You both get what you want. Putting one's own needs over the other's never makes anyone happy.๐ŸŒŸ

๐ŸŒž๐ŸˆIf you make yourself happy at your person's expense, or if your person makes themselves happy at your expense, no one will be happy. Find what makes everyone happy. You'll move into deeper intimacy, deeper safety, deeper closeness, it's what you want to feel with your Twin Flame, it's God you really wanted. God was in the rain and God was in the marriage. It's about mitigating, finding the highest priority in the Union. It took trust from him with all they are that she knew what they are and desire. Traumas were coming up for both of them, he didn't have a lot when he was a kid. He had to go to the places where he was hurt, and in doing so it helped him relax and trust her more. For him to trust in her direction in their emotional life helps her to trust his direction with practical things. As the Divine Feminine, she mostly experienced life on an emotional level, she is emotionally strong there, he can offer her more vulnerability and find trust there.๐Ÿ”ฅ

๐Ÿ๐ŸงกShe was saying, "You can trust me, I'm loving you, I have your highest interests at heart." They were both saying, "I'm not going to let you love me, I want to do it may way or I won't get my good." They were both brought to their knees to surrender. They were broken open, it's hard, it's raw, it's sensitive, facing fears and giving it to God. Total transformation and you get there. The old way was disrupted, communication opened up to the next level, Se felt respected and understood and he was able to respect him more and he felt less of a need to discipline his Twin Flame. It was part of the process, at one point he really had to tighten the discipline, although he didn't really want to. It may look controlling but it wasn't, from the place it was coming from, and now he was able to let that go. It's about not being afraid to go all the way in exploration to find the Truth. No will to fight but having the strength to stand up to the other's BS.๐Ÿ’ฅ

๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’–She didn't want to emasculate him because she would be doing the same to her own Feminine, it's not how to feel powerful, it's not sexy, it doesn't bring you what you want. If he was so done with fighting that he's do anything to please her, it would come at the expense of what his heart wanted. It's a feeling of being dead inside, giving the other total control, he got to the point where he very gently said, "This is not OK with me. This would be an abusive relationship and I love myself enough to walk away. If you duped me and you wanted total control all along this is the end, it's totally abusive to me." In that they had to choose Union. Union with God first, be strong and independent in that, then they could come together. You will go to all the dark places in your heart, where there's pure darkness, and you have to trust God, if you do, it'll be OK. ๐Ÿท


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